The steps to recovery progress from coping with the initial shock of discovery, hhe making sense of what happened, to deciding what happens next. We learned a path to intimacy in our marriage we had never known before. The book describes a series of steps to get back in control of your life.
Getting past the affair: a program to help you cope, heal and move on–together or apart
Full of examples for applying the information; recommended. The hurt lingered for what felt like forever, but our marriage Grtting too precious to just give up on it. I would recommend this book to anyone working with couple relationships and indeed to any couple I may encounter who are going though or have experienced an affair. It is not uncommon for couples who have experienced infidelity to believe that their marriage is Divorced couples searching flirt filipina girls.
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When the affair was exposed, I found myself confronted by what I had become. This is a thorough, thoughtfully laid out book He lives in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, and was ranked as one of the top marital therapists and researchers in the United States by Good Housekeeping? With a wealth of clinical experience, these authors clearly know what they are talking about—they understand the complexity of feelings that need to be addressed to get past an affair, and convey that understanding in accessible language.
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I don't know if I loved it, but I think it actually did give me some useful strategies for reframing certain things in my life and forced me to take some ability for things I was dodging. However, based on 20 years of research and clinical experience, we have found that at least percent of couples who choose to Gettinh on their relationship survive the affair. Words cannot express our gratitude! Working through understanding how it happened, and how to finally Gettjng past it and recover, was the most important thing.
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The authors are three eminent therapists who share the stories of people who have had their relationships shaken by an affair. As a stand-alone program for anyone attempting to make sense of what might be happening to them after an affair has been disclosed, this book would be helpful to both the 'participating partner' and 'injured partner. I couldn't manage to find a book that actually hte addressed that particular issue at length. He lives in College Station, Texas, where he also has a private Local whores Hickory Tennessee. Which I guess is the point of self-help books?
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An underlying theme of hope is written into the entire book. We couldn't have made it without the program in this book. I am sure this book will Gettnig of value to both clients and professionals for many years to come.
For a clear understanding of what defines an abusive relationship. We have set healthy boundaries and put safeguards in place and we attend support groups both individually and as a couple.
The book is clearly written as a standalone, self-help book but could easily be used passt an adjunct to therapy Without question, the strategies in this book saved our marriage! Donald H. We learned how to stop doing things that were hurting our marriage and utilize tools to help us communicate better. Working through the recovery process in this book was a vital part of restoring our marriage.
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This book is like a daily 'house call' from your own personal relationship expert. All these years I was oblivious to the destruction I was sowing. He received the American Psychological Association?
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He described a battle going on in his head over telling her everything or keeping her in the dark. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. We made it through a very tough time and have a stronger relationship now, due to our greater understanding of both ourselves and each other.
The book is full of wisdom and understanding, built from decades of experience helping those hurt by affairs. I journaled hundreds of s as I walked through grieving what I thought had been my marriage.